Monday, November 30, 2009

Turning in early...

Dear Nicky,

This afternoon you did great on the potty. Nice work! You had pizza bagels for dinner, then watched Wall-E, then went to bed slightly early, or more accurately, on time, since Junie didn't have a nap today. I wasn't very productive today but somehow I'm really tired. I've got this stiff neck and can barely turn my head. So I'm hitting the hay right now.

Love,
Dad

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Blowout...!

Dear Nicky,

I spent all morning cleaning up the front yard from leaves and twigs. This afternoon, shortly after you guys departed for Granny's house, I get a call from Mom, who tells me you guys just had a blowout, which is when a tire basically explodes while driving down the road. I jump in the car and hurry over to where you guys are. We transfer you over to the Subaru and I set about changing the tire, a cumbersome process made harder by the rapidly setting sun. I get on the road at last and come home and have dinner. Soon you guys are back from Granny's, then you're getting a bath and are going up to bed. And that's the day.

Saturday, November 28, 2009

From Junie's room...

Dear Nicky,

This evening I'm writing to you from June's room. I just put her to bed and lately she's developed this habit where she wants me to sit in the rocker chair and work on the computer in my lap so she can see the "white light." Anyway, today felt a little rough. I didn't sleep well last night. You have another ear infection and needed to go to the doctor. It was a difficult morning with much stubbornness and frustration. Then we took a long drive out to Pennsylvania to go to this store called Cabela's. Only I went; you were asleep in the car and Mom took you to get some food at the drive-thru. That place was too busy for me; I didn't like it. Then we went to Aunty's house and you guys had a nice time with your girl cousins. Then we came home and June fell asleep in the car and here I am.

Love,
Dad

Friday, November 27, 2009

Santa...!

Dear Nicky,

This evening we went out to see some animals, a parade, and Santa. It was cold, just like it has been every single time we do this thing. You and June liked it nonetheless. We came home, had dinner, had a bath, then watched Wall-E. Again. (Incidentally, after your bath, I noticed a lot of coming out of your right ear. Perhaps another doctor's visit is in order. It's been a couple weeks.) Mom went to bed early, then you guys, and now finally, me.

Love,
Dad

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Thanksgiving 2009...

Dear Nicky,

Today was Thanksgiving. We went out to the Great Swamp this morning to get some fresh air into you kids and knock you out so you'd take an early nap, which is exactly what happened. After your nap we went out to Granny's for an early dinner. The turkey kind of sucked, it was way too smoky flavored, but you didn't eat anything but some applesauce anyway. Your girl cousins came over later and you guys had some laughs with them, and then we came home and watched Monsters Inc.

Love,
Dad

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

What th'...?

Dear Nicky,

Man, you sure can pee. Especially anywhere but in the toilet. When you came home from Stones today you were asleep in the van because it was a half day and they skipped your nap. You weren't wearing a diaper so I was pretty sure you'd pee in bed, and I was right. Rarely do you empty your bladder so thoroughly. Just a few moments ago I found that you peed a lot on the carpet in my bedroom. C'mon, dude, get it together.

Love,
Dad

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

No nap for you...

Dear Nicky,

This afternoon my tail really started to drag right around the time you were due home. When you arrived I hoped you'd want to take a nap but you didn't. You didn't eat much dinner this evening, but you did watch Wall-E yet again.

Love,
Dad

Monday, November 23, 2009

Potty talk...

Dear Nicky,

This evening when I came home you told me clear as a bell you needed to go on the potty, so I took you and you went brilliantly. I praised and praised you. Then a few minutes later you had a poopy in your pants on the couch. I didn't lose my cool, put you back on the potty, and you made another poopy. We're getting there, son, we're getting there.

Love,
Dad

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Dinner out...

Dear Nicky,

This afternoon Mom took you and June out to Granny's so she could watch you while Mom and I went out to dinner. It was nice but the service was kind of slow. As usual when we're alone, Mom and I talked about the wonderful world we live in. Then we collected you and came home and went to bed.

Love,
Dad

Saturday, November 21, 2009

A pat on the head...

Dear Nicky,

A few minutes ago I was just checking on you in bed. You were sleeping soundly but too close to the edge of the bed, so I moved you over. To make sure I didn't disturb you I patted your head afterward. I love to pat your little head. It's so sweet and fits perfectly in my hand.

Love,
Dad

Friday, November 20, 2009

Nay to horses...

Dear Nicky,

Late this afternoon we went to your hippotherapy. It's kind of far and traffic is a pain and it's late in the day. But you sure enjoyed being on that horse and trotting around. Then when you got off and it was time to go the stable and work with the little horse named Small Fry, you totally balked and became uncooperative. On the way home you fell asleep and I put you straight to bed around seven.

Love,
Dad

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Nicest greeting...

Dear Nicky,

When I got home this evening, you gave me the nicest greeting. You called out my name and ran into my arms and gave me a big hug and kiss. How nice is that to come home to? Mom came home late tonight, so you'll be seeing her in the morning; bet you'll be surprised.

Love,
Dad

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Scrip...

Dear Nicky,

This afternoon after you came home and Junie woke up from her nap, we went down to Children's Specialized in Mountainside. We picked up a new prescription from Dr. Cheng's office; we needed one that said PT rather than hippotherapy--otherwise the insurance company wouldn't pay for it. Then we had some dinner and you pounded some veggie nuggets but good. Then we had a bath, watched Wall-E then went to bed.

Love,
Dad

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Another day...

Dear Nicky,

What day is it? I don't even know any more. There all the same. Relentlessly identical. You ate a decent dinner this evening, then watched Beauty and the Beast. Then we went to bed. I'm going to sleep now.

Love,
Dad

Monday, November 16, 2009

Daddy's birthday...

Dear Nicky,

Could barely get out of bed this morning, then could barely get you out of bed. Got you kids both off and had a few hours to myself. Went to the gym, went to the library. Then got June and the rest of the day was spent hopping to and fro, waiting on you guys like a coolie slave or something. Some birthday. Glad it's done.

Love,
Dad

Sunday, November 15, 2009

On the go again...

Dear Nicky,

This morning you and I went to Wegman's while Mom and June went to a birthday party for a friend of June's from Santa Fe. When we all reconnoitered later, I took you guys off to Granny's house while Mom got ready for her trip out of town again. Granny had left to go to Vermont, leaving Granddaddy there, and he's kind of boring; she had also turned some wonderful lamb ingredients into some kind of flavorless slop. You guys had pizza. Then we came home, listened to some music, then went to bed.

Love,
Dad

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Wake up to Mom...

Dear Nicky,

Mom got home late last night, so when you woke up she was here. You were so happy she was was back. This morning I went and tried to get a flu shot but they were all out. Mom took you guys to Rocketship Camp, then to Target. She gave us all lunch, then we put you to bed. Everybody is pretty tired. We had a nice dinner, watched the movie Up, then went to bed.

Love,
Dad

Friday, November 13, 2009

The latest...

Dear Nicky,

So here I am still wiped out but I'm writing a little earlier tonight just so I can catch you up on the week's events. Not a whole lot of stuff happened but it's just been kind of rough because Mom's been away and you were sick for most of the week and June's just been acting crazy at night. So anyway, here's what happened. On Sunday Mom left for Georgia for a trial that's taken up over a week and hasn't even given her the opportunity to testify. That evening the three of us went over to Granny's for dinner. On Monday I sent you to Stones and Junie to preschool and Lunch Bunch and I went to the gym for some cardio. When you came home that evening your nose looked a little stuffy but not bad. That night you fussed and woke up a lot in the middle of the night, and the next morning you had a high fever so I kept you home. Later during your nap you started coughing like a barking seal which is something I never want to hear because it means trouble. So I took you and Junie to the docs. Turns out you have the flu. While we're there both you and your sister behaved terribly, crying and acting awful. We drove around for a while to get your prescriptions filled and I yelled at both of you, but mostly Junie because she was just so annoying. Anyway we got the medicine in you and you slept great and woke up fine the next day. I kept you home just as a precaution. We spent most of the day watching movies because the cleaning lady was here and it was one of her longer sessions. She even watched you for me for the seven minutes it took me to drop June off at school. Nice lady. That night I made you guys some steak with plenty of leftovers. The next morning I took you down to Children's Specialized to have your orthotics recast. Again you flipped out on me, with much flailing, crying, and overall snottiness. Afterward, to remain productive, we went over to the optician, who adjust all three pairs of your glasses, while you slept all the while, exhausted from your earlier tantrum. Then we came home and soon your sitter was here to take over. I was out of here like a shot. She gave you an early dinner of leftover steak and put you to bed. Then around 11:30 last night, June woke up and had some kind of tantrum in the middle of the night. Jeez. This morning I wrestled you into your clothes and got you off to school, where they called me later regarding your nasal discharge yet again. Don't they have anything better to do? Granny picked up June from preschool today and had her all day long. When you got home from Stones, I gave some milk and a snack and then we went back toward Stepping Stones and kept going into West Orange to these horse stables where you had some hippotherapy. You got on a horse, little cowboy! At first you were a little apprehensive, but you quickly got into it, throwing one arm up into the air and shouting "yeehaw." Oh man it was great to see! You really enjoyed it. And I nearly got tears in my eyes. Your therapists adore you too. Afterward, we came home, arriving one minute before Granny and June. June was passed out asleep. I brought her up and put her to bed and once again she flipped out. Finally I got her to sleep and made you some pizza bagels, then shortly thereafter put you to bed. You were asleep almost instantly yourself, cowboy. It's been a long week. Mom should be home tonight, thank goodness.

Love,
Dad

Thursday, November 12, 2009

I'm sorry...

Dear Nicky,

I'm tired and physically and emotionally rundown. I'm sorry I yell at you kids. I don't want to make you feel bad, but sometimes I lose my patience. I hope you can forgive me.

Love,
Dad

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Lazy Daddy...

Dear Nicky,

I'm so tired I feel faint, so please forgive me I must once again postpone recalling the days events with you.

Love,
Dad

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

The flu...

Dear Nicky,

You have the flu. I'm pretty exhausted from this afternoon. Lemme get back to you tomorrow.

Love,
Dad

Monday, November 09, 2009

Not a bad day...

Dear Nicky,

Although I didn't sleep well last night, I think I did pretty well by you guys this morning. I got you off to school, then Junie, then went to the gym. We watched Toy Story 2 this evening after dinner, and you told me you had to go potty before I put you to bed. I was very proud of you.

Love,
Dad

Sunday, November 08, 2009

On my own...

Dear Nicky,

Mom left for out of town this morning. It's just us three cats for the next few days. It was a good day today and you both behaved very well. You ate your lunch well, we played outside, then we all napped for a bit, then went out to Granny's for dinner. Gave you a bath when we got home, then you went down easy to bed. Hope the rest of the week is as smooth.

Love,
Dad

Saturday, November 07, 2009

H1N1...

Dear Nicky,

This morning you and I got our swine flu shots. I didn't feel a thing, you were scared but quickly recovered. June couldn't get this particular shot because she's too young. Mom was worried that the shots had thimerisol in them, but the nurse assured us they didn't. I know they didn't, but when a doubt enters your mind it can be like an aggressive plant in fertile soil. And what's my fear regarding thimerisol? Autism, of course. Even though I think you're out of the danger zone, even though you're so sweet and loving, could it happen, just like that? Later this evening Mom and June went to bring over Mary the babysitter so Mom and I could go see a movie. While they were gone, you were so spontaneously loving and demonstrative it almost made me cry. I never want that to go away.

Love,
Dad

Friday, November 06, 2009

Braces...!

Dear Nicky,

This morning we made it to Rocket Ship Camp and you guys had a lot of fun. We dropped you off and went and got some breakfast of our own. Then Mom had an appointment and I went down to BJs for some waters and paper towels. I came home and took a shower while Mom picked you guys up, then we tried to go to Friendly's for lunch but it was too long a wait. We came home and played out front while Mom made you lunch. Then I went and got braces on my teeth. Can you believe it? At my age? I figured it would be something outside my comfort zone. It was pretty easy. I returned to find you both asleep, but soon June woke up and she and Mom went to the mall. You and I stayed home and made dinner. After dinner Mom gave you a bath, then we watched Toy Story, then I put you to bed.

Love,
Dad

Thursday, November 05, 2009

Family foto fun...

Dear Nicky,

This evening we went to get our holiday portrait taken. You and June could've behaved a little better but I think we managed to get one that we all look pretty good in. We came home and Mom had to rush off to this awards ceremony in Edison. I made your dinner which you didn't touch. You guys acted silly and had no business being awake so I put you to bed nice and early.

Love,
Dad

Wednesday, November 04, 2009

Nothing major going on...

Dear Nicky,

Like the title says, nothing major happening today. Nothing really bad, nothing really good. Just hanging in there, baby.

Love,
Dad

Tuesday, November 03, 2009

Earache...

Dear Nicky,

This evening I have an earache. I've had a cough for a few days, preceded by a stuffy nose. Perhaps now I have an ear infection. Haven't had one of those for a long time. I envy your ear tubes, my friend. I made you some steak for dinner, then Mom put you to bed while I went to the library for a while. Tomorrow is Wicked Wednesday so I better go to sleep.

Love,
Dad

Monday, November 02, 2009

Naps and pizza and bath...

Dear Nicky,

You came home asleep and napped for a while. When you woke up we snuggled some. It was nice. I made dinner when Junie woke up--pizza, carrots, yogurt, bananas. Then I gave you a bath and some medicine. You were acting badly so I yelled at you, more than I should have. I feel badly about it.

Love,
Dad

Sunday, November 01, 2009

I watch baseball...

Dear Nicky,

This afternoon while we were outside playing, I got invited to a baseball watching get together at one of the neighbor's houses. It was nice to be invited so I went. It was a longish game, and the Yankees unfortunately won. What can I say? Attending was a political act rather than social.

Love,
Dad